Thank you, thank you, thank you
can always rely on you guys to give me an honest and brutal (if need be) answer.
I did explain to him that I wasnt looking for a *commitment* level or promise of anything, I was really only wondering if this was a holiday fling in his mind, as we have both spoken about the fuck buddy thing in the past....those comments wouldnt have been too out of left field.
Bruce - point taken about my bluntness. Its one of the things he has always liked about me though, always says he loves that he doesnt have to guess with me and that I always explain how I am feeling without game playing.
Re: Relocating....he gets posted at different military bases periodically. There is the option of staying put, or relocating to a different base. He does a stint in Iraq early next year, then would relocate to a new base.
Griff - I am all modern and carefree about sex....
when its just sex.
Hence why I probably asked the question anyway. I know I like the guy, and if he says "look, I think its just going to be a casual thing"...I'm good, can rationalise that in my mind and be all whatever about it.
I dont think this question crops up after a relationship becomes sexual, especially in this instance, because there was connection before we even met.
Hangups, oh yeah I have them. I think I realise I have the majority of them, I may have to add another one to the list.
We spoke briefly last nite and he says my question was *fair enough* because knowledge is power.
I know he will have thought about it over nite and will have some new insight for me this morning.
If I burnt the bridge with that little effort, it would appear is was going up in flames anyways I guess.