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Shawnee123 · 12-11-2006, 07:53 AM

Ran into my newly ex'ed boyfriend last night. We have remained friends, thought it's not always easy. I invited him over for dinner, and we watched some TV and had a couple beers. He was all snuggly and kissy, which he had not been for the last few months we were together.

Edited to add: I DID send him home for the night and nothing happened because that would have been way too much to handle.
The problem is, I always think he must just want something (and no, I don't mean physical) because that has been his MO in the past. Yet, another side of me thinks he is sad and depressed and really does love and need me.

Because of a few matters, he was instrumental in messing me up financially (I take responsibility for not being prepared for the inevitable bumps that happen in life, but he sent me reeling into brokedom.)

I want to be there for him but loving him has proven to be quite painful at times.

Will I EVER learn?

12-11-2006, 07:53 AM	#1
Shawnee123 Why, you're a regular Alfred E Einstein, ain't ya? Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 21,206	will i ever learn? Ran into my newly ex'ed boyfriend last night. We have remained friends, thought it's not always easy. I invited him over for dinner, and we watched some TV and had a couple beers. He was all snuggly and kissy, which he had not been for the last few months we were together. Edited to add: I DID send him home for the night and nothing happened because that would have been way too much to handle. The problem is, I always think he must just want something (and no, I don't mean physical) because that has been his MO in the past. Yet, another side of me thinks he is sad and depressed and really does love and need me. Because of a few matters, he was instrumental in messing me up financially (I take responsibility for not being prepared for the inevitable bumps that happen in life, but he sent me reeling into brokedom.) I want to be there for him but loving him has proven to be quite painful at times. Will I EVER learn? __________________ A word to the wise ain't necessary - it's the stupid ones who need the advice. --Bill Cosby Last edited by Shawnee123; 12-11-2006 at 09:00 AM.