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Dana, same thing has happened to me. All of a sudden I wasn't being approached any more. I went through phases of blaming it on my weight, but to be honest I'm over that and can accept that it's not the problem I thought it was. Okay I still need to lose it, but it's not going to hold me back.
Somehow all the men I find interesting are already in relationships, most of the long term. It's like a couple of years ago there was some sort of deadline announced that I didn't hear - "Get yourself a partner by the end of the year or face being single long term" I would rather be single than in an unhappy relationship (as I think I probably was at the time of the deadline) but honestly I would rather be happily settled snuggles, someone to talk to and hot sex.
Maybe if we wait a couple of years they'll all be getting divorced and we'll be the ones with the independence and flirting skills to clean up....?
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