I also wanted to thank Blue for the advice given...
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Originally Posted by morethanpretty
Perhaps he is planning a surprise party and he's good at not giving himself away.
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He really IS very good at keeping secrets, but I feel his excuses given and tone of voice were truthfully bordering on justification and defensiveness, not hiding a secret. I'm not holding out much hope.
As to planning my own 40th...there is no time, it is tomorrow.
He does love me. I know he does. He showed it this summer by caring for me when I was so ill and couldn't wash my own hair. I think perhaps I fell into the well of expecting my husband to read my mind. I'm going to let it drop. BUT...I think I will tell him I want to go bedroom furniture shopping.
I have to make him pay in
some way!