Originally Posted by case

A slightly different perspective here: My husband and I cheer for each other's flirtedness. He might tell me "There's this new girl at work" and I might respond "Is she cute? Did you talk to her yet?" Or I might go to the gas station and come back and tell him about the cute boy I flirted with there. We both trust each other and have made it a rule not to get jealous. I know he isn't going to fall for the hot chick at work. He knows I am sticking with him, too. It works out because we have a mutual understanding about it. And we like to see each other get attention. It's like reverse jealousy.