As someone with 7 months of probation for DWAI left, and hours and hours and hours spent in therapy, classes, community service, etc., I can say with some authority that your boyfriend has a looooong row to hoe.
If he's effing up while he's on paper and in the system, what's he going to do when he's finished his time and no one's supervising him? Right now I'm in therapy with a 60-year-old guy who shot someone over a dope deal, a couple DUI cases, several drug users who got caught doing whatever to support the habit, and 2 guys who beat their girlfriends/wives. Out of those 10-15 people, maybe 4 of them can really be said to be "trying". You can see the difference in their eyes and their body language. What's the look in your boyfriend's eyes?
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