possibly both right?
divorce *can* (ie won't always) offer an out from an otherwise untenable position.
however, there is a certain blase with which people treat marriage at the outset with the knowledge of said out. so....maybe it is important to be sure of things at the beginning. check that - it is VERY important to be sure from the get-go.
also.
what is an 'average' person?
what is 'complete' change every 20 years?
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