[Trilby]

Ditto. DO NOT MARRY THIS MAN! He gets reallly 'furious' when you question him about questionable things? That's a classic move--designed to throw you off, think you're crazy and intimidate you. "Why am I here then?" indeed! Coz he likes having many, many women and he always will. He'll NEVER change, baby. Dump him. I dated a man who was constitutionally incapable of keeping it in his pants--the man had women in six counties, I kid you not. He got married, too (needed someone to look after his house and his kid by wife #1) but still messed around with as many as he could. When his wife confronted him, he acted like he was having a heart attack-how COULD she! Etc, etc. It's been years since I knew him but ya know what? Every six months or so he shows up on my doorstep, wondering if I'd like another go. HA! For three years I've flatly turned him down---he was just here last week! He's STILL married! Oh yes, he also screws his ex-wife and all of his ex girlfriends who will let him. I talked with wife number one a couple of times--she told me that when she was married to this asshole his FATHER came on to her! Runs in the family.