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I've always found it a lot less complicated and confusing to just be honest (in the nicest way possible).
I don't believe is is necessary to give someone excuses for turning them down, a simple 'no, thank you' should suffice. If they refuse to accept that, you have definately made the correct choice.
If I'm interested in someone, I'll tell them.
Body language is quite interesting to observe and can tell you a great deal about the person you are watching. Leaning forward on your elbow generally means, tell me more. Crossing of arms is a sign that the person is shutting something/someone out. Swinging legs and biting lips is often a sign of nervousness (keep your feet and legs still during an interview!). Batting of lashes means they have something in their eye :p . Just kidding!
Stormie
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