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skysidhe · 07-27-2006, 12:51 PM

lol bruce

Well, For me it isn't what I want to hear it is what I don't want to hear.

I don't want to be put down or played games with. I don't want to hear disfunctional need . I like the up front approach. I don't want to be made to feel anything just accepted for who I am as much as I accept another for who they are.

I don't really believe in romantic love. I believe a person can be romanced but it is part of an expression but it's not actually reality. To be taken some place out of oneself for a short amount of time is a very good thing. It's bonding but the illusion is not suppose to last. Then it's business as usual. I do think men get mixed messages at times. I've never asked a guy to be a 'manly romantic' Only that they are straight thinkers basically.

07-27-2006, 12:51 PM	#75
skysidhe ~~Life is either a daring adventure or nothing.~~ Join Date: Apr 2006 Posts: 6,828	lol bruce Well, For me it isn't what I want to hear it is what I don't want to hear. I don't want to be put down or played games with. I don't want to hear disfunctional need . I like the up front approach. I don't want to be made to feel anything just accepted for who I am as much as I accept another for who they are. I don't really believe in romantic love. I believe a person can be romanced but it is part of an expression but it's not actually reality. To be taken some place out of oneself for a short amount of time is a very good thing. It's bonding but the illusion is not suppose to last. Then it's business as usual. I do think men get mixed messages at times. I've never asked a guy to be a 'manly romantic' Only that they are straight thinkers basically.