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					Originally Posted by Jabbly
					
				 
				interestingly in primary school, the only place where grammar seems to matter these days, i was taught to NEVER use a comma before 'and'. i always feel rebellious if i write 'red, white, and blue' and it always looks wrong to me... 
			
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 I was taught the opposite.  I always had to put the comma in the list.  It was never optional for me.  The only way there wasn't a comma is if there were only two items in the list.  I am so used to the comma before the "and" that I don't think I would do it any other way.