[Aliantha]

My b/f and I had a discussion about cheating just a few days ago. I asked him what he'd do if I ever cheated on him and he immediately said he'd forgive me and so I asked why, and he said, because he loves me. I then told him that if he cheated on me I'd never forgive him and that it'd be over between us. He said he knew that, but that it didn't change what he'd do if I ever did. Kinda blew me away really because I know he meant what he said.

I think cheating means different things to different people, and maybe sometimes it is just about sex and nothing to do with emotions. Unfortunately, there are few of us who can make that distinction clearly, particularly the women I suspect.