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Originally Posted by yesman065
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I wanted him to tell me what he's feeling.[/b] When he did - Did you listen Did you actually hear what he said or did you infer and assume what you thought he said? More so did you hear just the parts that you wanted to hear and miss the rest of what he said?
I wanted him to feel like I'm the best thing in his life. How did you know what he was or wasn't feeling???? Perhaps he felt this way and you totally misconstrued what he said and how he said it.
I wanted him to love me with all his heart. How do you know he wasn't?
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He stopped talking. The silent treatment. There was no getting him to warm up after I said this relationship needs lots of work, but I want it to work.
He just froze into an iceman.
There is he alone, pleased with his strength.
It's a good thing it didn't go ahead, really. It would not have lasted. The slightest infraction on my part and I would be shot down hard and ignored. He enjoyed my begging but it just made me angrier that nothing could reach him.
So I stopped.
He told me not to take it personally once....he is aloof with everyone, he said. Aloof is a gross understatement.
But he is capable of sweet loving charm....but seems only for one short burst.
He used to be a repo man, payday loan officer.....never had a loan go bad except one lady who didn't pay him $500 about 10 years ago....it still made him mad. He couldn't let go.
Let's just say he isn't easy to get along with.....
But he is big and strong and brave......and....so masculine.
Too bad you can't have have that with a sweet kind heart.
Where is Golden????????? How are you doing dear?
Don't let me hog your thread....