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No.
None of the efforts in that direction were worthwhile. I knew what I was looking for, and that wasn't it. You may be looking for something else, and your mileage will certainly vary. In fact, I think that's exactly the core of the question and the best answer. If you're both looking for the same thing, regardless of whether it is love or sex, the prognosis is good. But you're not looking for the same thing, it can only end badly.
Knowing what one is looking for is no trivial matter. Especially when there are mixed motivations. Self knowledge inexpressably valuable.
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Be Just and Fear Not.
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