Uhuh Sully, I'm confused...dont worry though, it happens easily
Anyways, Iggy, I would say same sex counts...if it was a sexual act. Dunno about a number, it seems a tough call.
It doesnt phase me in the least, so I wouldnt care or ask the number of my partner.
10 in 10 years? shit, I dont know, too many other things come into play. What if you had a partner for 9 years and 11 months, then just went out and screwed around a bit?
Too hard
When in doubt, shut your mouth seems to be a good thing.
Sully, would depend on the "thing" for me and my feelings towards the guy.
I would like to say I would stay around regardless, but..well..I'm not perfect.