oral is much better on both ends when both ends are shaved...... at least for me and my man... when he is shaved its much easier for me to just ...
... get him wet and slippery and have fun....
Im happy I saw this thread, I just had a conversation with the SO last night. He and I have sex probably 4-10 times a month...often we will have it once and then not for two weeks then three nights in a row... whatever... I dont have much of a libido... and we have a very... routine way of having sex. And personally, I enjoy that. I have no libido... and often in the beginning of the relationship I would have sex with him when I really didnt want to, and I tell ya, it is the worst thing in the world. So... once I ended up in tears once or twice,and we had discussed the situation multiple times, he told me he would never initiate again. Now that sucks, but its my own fault, and I have to deal with it.
So now, I just feel guilty all the time about how little sex I give him (when I know he would like it pretty much daily)... but its very easy for me to just not initiate....its really bad. Although, sometimes Id be perfectly fine just tearing his clothes off, but I cant tell if he is interested... so last night I told him that...and he said he is always interested...hehe...so I guess I will try to initiate more... I just dont want to loose him because of my low libido... I ask him what he would do if it was always liek this, if he could stay with me....but he just says it will get better, never acknowledging the fact that it might not... that kinda sucks...
Got a question though. I didnt read all
55 pages of this, so it may have been answered... Have any of you women with a low libido gotten good advice from a doctor?