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SteveBsjb · 03-31-2006, 07:56 AM

A good friend of mine passed away last year. She was cremated. The problem now is the ashes and the urn are at her parents house. I love her parents, but I feel like... I wish she was buried so I could go visit her grave, bring her flowers, and not have to bother the family in anyway. It's long distance too (relatively) so, I can't even think of a reason to call them. It seems weird to say I want to visit the urn in their house. They know I was close with her, and I keep in touch with her sister, and care about them, but I feel awkward about contacting them on this. I feel like they've been through enough without me bothering them. If there were a grave site I could visit it without bothering anyone. So could other friends she had. I don't know if any of them feel this way, but I do.

03-31-2006, 07:56 AM	#65
SteveBsjb Operations Operative Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Moved from Manhattan to Edgewater, NJ. Posts: 713	A good friend of mine passed away last year. She was cremated. The problem now is the ashes and the urn are at her parents house. I love her parents, but I feel like... I wish she was buried so I could go visit her grave, bring her flowers, and not have to bother the family in anyway. It's long distance too (relatively) so, I can't even think of a reason to call them. It seems weird to say I want to visit the urn in their house. They know I was close with her, and I keep in touch with her sister, and care about them, but I feel awkward about contacting them on this. I feel like they've been through enough without me bothering them. If there were a grave site I could visit it without bothering anyone. So could other friends she had. I don't know if any of them feel this way, but I do. __________________ "It's only an internet community."