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One factor in this is that I do have an active life that I enjoy engaging in. It just happens to be a relatively solitary one. I have a lot of fun and really enjoy my life the way it is. If I meet or call someone, that means i'm effectively vetoing my guaranteed fulfulling activity for a potentially boring waste of time. On one level, i've made a concious decision not to have friends.
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I know its virtually impossible, i've got an extended circle of over 200 'friends' but only 4 close ones i see regular) but find people that interest you, people that capture you, people you want to talk to and can talk to for hours, without ever being bored.