[Kozmique]

I suspect a wedding ring would merely demote your status from servant to slave. At least you haven't tied the noose -er, knot - yet so you still have time to make a choice. You can change yourself & your situation but you can't change other people, and it sounds to me like your fiance has already made it clear what his priorities are. If it were me, I'd make the break now before the legal complications set in.