Brianna, certainly some people like drama but I suspect almost everybody in that group would love to avoid it after their expecience. You're lucky those types send up red flags in your case; avoiding the types Mari describes isn't something they teach you in school. I think she hit the nail with trust issues. I lost a friend due largely (or so I presume) to trust issues after she dealt with a socio and have seen it with another. You can be as open as reasonably possible but if a person has trust issues it can lead to a lot of problems.
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