Heh, Bruce! Spoken like a guy as well as a "civilian." You haven't been there, thank God! You don't wanna go there! Thanks for the "straighten up and fly right" words of wisdom, tho!
PS Oh, and we talks lots about stupid stuff - kinda like the cellar. Its not all about whining over how we were wronged back when. Mostly its about like what you said, just getting on with our lives.