I really think there's nothing gay about it. There are many definitions of the word 'gay' (or homosexual), but the one that stands out is: "having a sexual attraction to someone of the same sex". Now for me, that means I'm not gay. See:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gay
I've had sex with a guy before, and it didn't do anything for me. I also don't want to date guys.