[plthijinx]

one of the students at the flight school came back from a year tour, a seargent. when he first came back he didn't want to talk to anyone let alone his wife. after a few weeks he started opening up. we let him bring it up and i actually asked him about "asking him" and he said that he'd talk about whatever when he was ready, so yeah, just let him mention it. he'll tell you when he wants......