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It sounds to me like you resent him somehow?
Or maybe you're unhappy generally and a part of you holds him accountable for some reason?
I've been to some couples counselling that didn't go very well because my partner and I didn't have a common dictionary to work from and ended up ending the sessions pissed at each other because of what we thought the other person had said.
What worked for us were separate sessions that allowed us to bounce what we were feeling of the counselor and he would give us feedback (too aggressive, argumentative, insulting, irrelavant etc.) before we would then have a session together. That was much more productive and got us through a period that could have destroyed our relationship.
In any event, good luck and best wishes. You're not alone feeling this way and if you are feeling any guilt, don't waste the energy. If you are not happy, you cannot make anyone else happy. And your daughter will sense the tension between you and your hubby.
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