I think that fact that you recognize flaws in yourself and not just your husband speaks volumes to your level of maturity in your relationship. Would he be willing to go to a different individual counselor to work on his own issues? Nothing is ever one sided, I'm sure there are areas he could work on, too.
That you seek help and are doing it responsibly is a great, great thing. I wish you luck and you have an ear (4 marriages under the belt) if you need one!
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