heh.. I agree. and in my opinion it's not soley restriceted to females..the standards of beauty that is, sure.. there's more of it or it's more intense, but as I've seen it's universally applied. that's why I had to develope a personality and a bit of charm (not that it usually pans out in the written word.. damnit!)
and about the fumbling I was more meaning the first few times...
