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Originally Posted by Beestie
He's not in love with you. What else do you need to know? We've all been there and it sucks but it is what it is. There is no answer.
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Out of curiosity, are there a number of guys that have been available to you that other women thought were decent guys but that you found hopelessly normal, uninteresting or predictably boring? I think some people suffer from a malady whereby they form attachments to people who aren't really capable of returning the affection - for these people, the idea of a relationship with someone who can offer them unconditional acceptance and love is just unappealing. I don't know if this describes you or not but if it does, its a problem that needs fixin.
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I wrote a reply to this but it's disappeared.
Yes, I am generally not interested in guys for the above reasons. They bore me to tears and I know they have nothing to offer. My first 'true love' gave me unconditional love and acceptance, but I got bored of that. What the fuck is the matter with me?
I want someone to stimulate me, excite me AND love all of me and for me to love them the same. Is that really so impossible?