Well, you've also gotta pick the right women to begin with. There are women who are going to abuse every man they're with, just like there are men that way. If all your women seem to act a certain way, it's time to break into an entirely new environment. Do something you would never normally do, be it sitting in a coffeeshop reading, or going to the gym, or attending a small concert of a musician you think you might like but don't normally listen to.
You might discover you have an innate talent for kayaking, and you might meet a woman who's been wondering what happened to all the nice guys.
