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Catwoman · 03-09-2005, 10:43 AM

I wasn't in the bar.

He knows it bothers me when he flirts etc.

He is slightly less bothered when I do it because he appears to have overcome that emotional clinginess - or he just feels less for me.

All that remains is that if I want a relationship/friendship with him I have to accept there will be other women.

Also, I am not sure enough that he is 'the one' for me to promise I will never be interested in anyone else, or commit to a relationship.

So when I say there is nothing I can do about it, I mean this is the alternative to not having the friendship. It may build to something greater. It probably won't. Either way, the times when we are together work; although I'm not entirely sure why. I could write a list of things but that would be selling it to you and probably myself. And it's enough to put up with the odd fling.

Still, I've missed your occasional wisdom lj!

03-09-2005, 10:43 AM	#2
Catwoman stalking a Tom Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: on the edge of the english channel Posts: 1,000	I wasn't in the bar. He knows it bothers me when he flirts etc. He is slightly less bothered when I do it because he appears to have overcome that emotional clinginess - or he just feels less for me. All that remains is that if I want a relationship/friendship with him I have to accept there will be other women. Also, I am not sure enough that he is 'the one' for me to promise I will never be interested in anyone else, or commit to a relationship. So when I say there is nothing I can do about it, I mean this is the alternative to not having the friendship. It may build to something greater. It probably won't. Either way, the times when we are together work; although I'm not entirely sure why. I could write a list of things but that would be selling it to you and probably myself. And it's enough to put up with the odd fling. Still, I've missed your occasional wisdom lj! __________________ I've decided I'm not going to have a signature anymore.