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Old 03-01-2005, 12:28 PM   #3
warch
lurkin old school
 
Join Date: Oct 2001
Location: Minnesota
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For me the marker is "respect".
And that can be breached by dishonesty, cruelty, manipulativeness, selfishness, distance, disinterest, emabarassment, behavior that demonstrates a lack of respect for the other. When you dont respect your partner or are consistently treated in a disrespectful way, time to reconsider.
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