Rose&poem vs teddy&bunch. If you were fishing and they were bait, then the larger bait would be more successful, but she's not a fish. Both offerings were to inform her of your interest and also the choice of gift give her a little insight into where you're head is at.
In reality, she was probably already aware of the interest of at least teddy&bunch, if not both of you. Probably the night before she was gushing to her girlfriend, she hoped Teddy&bunch would make a move.
If rose&poem blindsided her, she was touched, but not enough to sway her from her from her intended prey. If she expected rose&poem, then she had already made up her mind, you were not the one she wanted to devour.
Use extreme caution making plans around surprises. There is a tendency to play the whole scenario through in your head to what, you feel or at least hope, is a logical conclusion. 99.9% of the time, it won't happen that way.
Or she was a money grubbing bitch and you lucked out.
PS- That scar? You ain't seen nothing yet.