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Thank you to everyone who has provided me with such excellent advice. I definitely hear the bad credit loan applications calling me, but I think when it comes down to it in the future we will be glad we took every possible route in this. I feel like it is our responsibility (technically his, but I make it mine, too, since the kids need all the support they can get) to do whatever possible to give them the opportunity for a healthy life. I don't feel they are getting that with her. I don't think they have ever had that with her. Even if we don't win, at least we tried our asses off. I know it could be a bitter feeling if we lose, but it would feel much worse if we gave up and things continued this way for them.
On the cult thing...illegal weapons and fraud are not a part of the religion. They are just things this family has and has done, but won't admit to. They are completely self righteous and never wrong. If something goes wrong they point the finger at someone else. Bf and I are thinking seriously about making a tip to the police, but then, I wonder if we should wait until a time when the kids are with us, so they don't have to be there for whatever happens with the police. Just a little paranoia to add into the mix.
Oh yeah, Stacey, I care for him very much. He would support me just as much if the tables were turned. And he does support me a great deal in other areas. I would say we have been together for 7 or 8 months. I dont know for sure though. We were friends when he and the ex split up.
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