Looks don't mean much in the dark. And even with the lights on, looks don't last forever. My wife happens to be super good looking, but that's not why I'm with her. She's not too skillful either. I didn't get to find out until after we were married. This is only due to inexperience. That's ok. It just means I'll have to make sure we do it a lot so I can teach her the ropes.....and blindfolds....etc...