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I think it's vital to be physically attracted to the other person - this keeps the passion high throughout the course of the act. The more attracted I am to someone, the more I enjoy giving them pleasure. The more pleasurable it is for them, the more exciting it is for me.
Attraction is based on a number of factors - not purely physical. Personally, I go for kind-hearted intellects with a wacky sense of humor. I also like dark hair and I have a thing for broad muscular hands.
Sexual skills are a very important part of the mix. I need to be with someone who has motivation and techniques on par with my own. A mis-match either way diminishes the experience. There's nothing more amazing than being highly aroused and completely going for it with someone who is in the same state. When both of you are totally in the moment, allowing any inhibitions to go by the wayside - this is the best and most satisfying type of experience.
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