[lumberjim]

kelle made a mistake by leaving before it was final. she needs to correct it by getting her ass on a plane, and getting back here before the hearing. mistakes can cost you, and when the stakes are as high as they are here, you must do whatever you can to correct them, or suffer the consequences. if she tries to do this by remote control, it is indicitave of her commitment level. in other words, if she doesnt get back here, she deserves to lose the kid. sounds shitty of me to say that, and i think some have said similar things, but, its pretty simple really.

why the fuck did she go to a foreign country with no job? is love that blind? goddamn. she is totally reliant on this croatian guy? cant he fly her ass back here to deal with it, then? amazing.

the thing is, OC, that it is a little late for advice. i think thats where wolf is with this.

you see, i tied this rope around my neck, because i just love rope, and then i stood on this chair (its a really high chair, and i wont be able to climb down by myself) and then someone tied the other end of the rope off while i wasnt looking, and kicked the chair out. so now i'm swinging by my neck. what should i do?

kelle needs to climb up the fucking rope, and untie it.

sorry if this doesnt help. im sure its nothing you havent thought of yourself.