I went to Portugal last year to Albufeira, had a brilliant time, and developed a real sense of the language, obrigado
OK here's the plan. I go out tonight or very soon and sleep with another guy. I judge his reaction. If he's not bothered, fuck it. If he is, I'll tell him I won't sleep with him unless it's exclusive. I think I need to do it - it will act as a catalyst for him if he really is bothered.
Good idea?