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Originally posted by Catwoman
What a mess. Should I tell him how I feel?
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If he felt it, it
might have an impact.
But it seems at least relatively clear that he doesn't.
Outside of the satisfaction or further hurt YOU will experience from the venting, I don't know what it would accomplish for you.
It's been established that the relationships of people in your household are fluid and nonbinding. You don't have any exclusivity deal. You're not even, as many of today's younger folk do, practicing serial monogamy.
It was never in the 'rules,' unwritten or not.
You're housemates who happened to have fucked. You didn't establish anything else.
Get yourself a large tub of the chocolatiest ice cream you can find, one spoon, put on your jammies and fuzzy slippers, and start reading through the "to let" adverts.
Unless yours is the sole name on the lease where you are, in which case, telling him and the chick to get the hell out might be a better start.
note: Posted before reading Catwoman's response regarding the conversation, but I'm leaving this anyway.