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Old 06-17-2004, 02:22 PM   #9
ladysycamore
"I may not always be perfect, but I'm always me."
 
Join Date: Dec 2001
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Originally posted by Catwoman
I don't think we're like swans. Else why all the affairs, divorces? I'd like to think there is someone for everyone but I just can't see it. We are individuals, not pairs. Love is just the ultimate antidote to insecurity.
Hrm...that last sentence would make a great signature line.

But seriously, just taking my personal example, I was alone and somewhat insecure for a long time before I met Sycamore (because as I stated in an earlier post, I didn't want to fall into any type of relationship with anybody until *I* felt the time was right and that *I* was right with myself). I could have fallen into all kinds of situtations based on my insecurity with myself, but I refused to do so. I knew that it would lead to nothing but drama, and that's the last thing I needed on top of everything else that I had to deal with (nothing major, just everyday bullshit).

Basically, "I can do bad all by myself". (which is actually a name of a play! LOL). But it's so true.

And I also believe that there is someone for everyone. You may not find that "someone" right away, or hell, maybe even never, but they are out there.
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