[lumberjim]

Could be I guess. I was thinking that because I'm kind of persuasive and logical when I speak, they didn't trust themselves to hold to their decision to end things. I recall Shelby saying that I bent reality when I talked in my calm voice....or something like that. Like I distorted things so subtly that it altered her view of things. Heather behaved in a way that indicated the same effect. We would be fine while I was with her, but communication via text or email always devolved into drama.