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Originally Posted by xoxoxoBruce
OK, if I say please and she says no, how long do I have to wait before I ask again to not be rapey? An hour? 4 hours? 24 hours? A week? A year?  |
Forever, until she indicates that she is physically interested in you. Whether she "is" is open to interpretation, of course, and not everyone is as good at "taking the lead," but even introverts in today's open-and-honest communication environment understand that if you are not giving some signal of positive affirmation, then you're putting the other person in a bad situation where they'd have to make uninformed decisions, and that's uncool towards
them. So everybody takes responsibility for communication. Girls will tell you if they're interested. And it doesn't hurt to ask, but if you're literally
bugging them about it, you're just being a bit of a creep, right?
So if you ask and she says no, the ball is in her court. And since it isn't a one-sided game, she can actually make plays to score a goal
on you.
And the great thing is: you're freed from all that responsibility.