NSFW the pole poll
 

Does size matter, ladies? details, experiences, fears, hopes, please.

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Size isn't most important at all. BUT, if you're under 4 inches, you might want to look for a virgin.

Size doesn't mean a thing, but technique is important as is over-all confidence. Confidence is sexy no matter what size, shape or flavor! ;)

I also find confidence sexy, but have had my "confidence" misread as "demanding", decidedly UNsexy.

Has that happened to you too? I'm baffled about how to respond, except to withdraw.

has that happened a lot? and How long have you known the woman/women who misread your confidence?

Can we do a boobs pole next?

oh, that's a really good idea!! I don't know how to start a poll- will someone do it?

I've had really big men who didn't know what the hell they were doing.
I've had really big men who knew what they were doing but weren't terribly enthusiastic.
I've had average men who blew my mind. Alot.
I've had WAY below average men that I literally didn't know if they were in or not.
Twice.

For me, it's not about the size (average or better) it's about the chemistry and intimacy and connection. I've never been about "one night stand" type sex. I tried it and, well, eh.

And by the way, I've been having an argument with a co-worker.... what is "average"? I say from experience that average is about 4 inches hard, she says average is 6 inches hard. Thoughts?

I'd say average is about 5 inches hard, and I've seen quite a few of 'em ;)

Last I heard it was 5.4".

Average is about 5.5 to 6 inches hard---but I've been blown away by 4 inches. It's all in the game, sweetie. I am pretty aural (that's AURAL, not ORAL) and I like dirty talk...shame on me! A good talker is as good as an 8-9 incher anyday (and, uh, yes, I did have a niner. Amazing lad but dumber than the dumbest man you could ever know. But he had ONE thing going for him! ;)

i thought you said NINE???
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a girl once told me to give her ten inches and make her scream.


So I fucked her twice and puched her in the lip.

Hahaha. That reminds me of one.

High school. Senior year. Some friends are trying to persuade me that I should get over my reluctance to go after a particular girl. One of them says, "Come on Steve, go for it. She'll flip for you. Go to her, and tell her you'll give her 10 inches."

I gave him what I thought was the dumbest, lamest response possible:

"I couldn't do that, Serge.


I mean, I'd have to fold it in half."


But everybody got a big laugh out of it, even though I thought it was a pretty feeble attempt.

Nobody expects witty sexual repartee out of the identified geek.

Gives you a real edge, actually.