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Sheldonrs 01-09-2012 09:52 AM

What makes a father
 
The brother is more of a father than the father will ever be.:http://www.huffingtonpost.com/kriste...b_1190690.html

Clodfobble 01-09-2012 09:59 AM

Shit man, that made me cry. Thank god for good big brothers.

it 01-09-2012 10:23 AM

i laughed.

at best the father believes he is protecting the child from the social consequances of a stereotype because in his days it was a lot worst then it is today, at worst he actually believes he is protecting him from things that he believes would change the child's sexuality and thus prevent the child's assention into whatever the father counts as heaven.

either way he is being stupid, but the heart is probably in the right place. the brother gets the advantage of being more in touch with the current state of society. but that's about it.

classicman 01-09-2012 11:57 AM

Worth quoting for thos who don't click on links ...
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You thought I didn't really notice. But I did. I wanted to high-five you.

Yesterday I had a pair of brothers in my store. One was maybe between 15 and 17. He was a wrestler at the local high school. Kind of tall, stocky and handsome. He had a younger brother, who was maybe about 10 to 12 years old. The only way to describe him was scrawny, neat, and very clean for a boy his age. They were talking about finding a game for the younger one, and he was absolutely insisting it be one with a female character. I don't know how many of y'all play games, but that isn't exactly easy. Eventually, I helped the brothers pick a game called "Mirror's Edge." The youngest was pretty excited about the game, and then he specifically asked me, "Do you have any girl color controllers?" I directed him to the only colored controllers we have, which include pink and purple ones. He grabbed the purple one, and informed me purple was his FAVORITE.

The boys had been taking awhile, so their father eventually came in. He saw the game, and the controller, and started in on the youngest about how he needs to pick something different. Something more manly. Something with guns and fighting, and certainly not a purple controller. He tried to convince him to get the new Zombie game "Dead Island" and the little boy just stood there repeating, "Dad, this is what I want, OK?" Eventually it turned into a full-blown argument complete with Dad threatening to whoop his son if he didn't choose different items.

That's when big brother stepped in. He said to his dad, "It's my money, it's my gift to him. If it's what he wants, I'm getting it for him, and if you're going to hit anyone for it, it's going to be me." Dad just gave his oldest son a strong stern stare-down, and then left the store. Little brother was crying quietly. I walked over and ruffled his hair (yes, this happened all in front of me). I said, "I'm a girl, and I like the color blue, and I like shooting games. There's nothing wrong with what you like. Even if it's different than what people think you should." I smiled, he smiled back (my heart melted!). Big brother then leaned down, kissed little brother on the head, and said, "Don't worry, dude."

They checked out and left, and all I can think is how awesome big brother is, how sweet little brother is, and how Dad ought to be ashamed for trying to make his son any other way.
The older brother deserves mega credit for being as mature and protective of his lil broth despite having an asshole for a father.

Clodfobble 01-09-2012 12:46 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by traceur
either way he is being stupid, but the heart is probably in the right place.

He was willing to hit the child over it. His heart is not in the right place.

And lest you brush it off as an empty threat, it's clear to me that the dad has hit before, for the older brother to react the way he did, effectively threatening the dad right back.

it 01-09-2012 12:52 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Clodfobble (Post 786324)
He was willing to hit the child over it. His heart is not in the right place.

And lest you brush it off as an empty threat, it's clear to me that the dad has hit before, for the older brother to react the way he did, effectively threatening the dad right back.

i didn't even see that line.

infinite monkey 01-09-2012 01:08 PM

Brothers are awesome. (I mean the good ones.)

ZenGum 01-09-2012 08:54 PM

Once more, for the sake of the awesome excelentness:

Quote:

"It's my money, it's my gift to him. If it's what he wants, I'm getting it for him, and if you're going to hit anyone for it, it's going to be me."

classicman 01-09-2012 10:43 PM

Somebody put that boy in the HOF thread.

Griff 01-10-2012 05:26 AM

Truly. Nice find Shel.

HungLikeJesus 01-10-2012 07:59 AM

That father must be doing something right to raise such a good son.

Clodfobble 01-10-2012 08:01 AM

:lol:

infinite monkey 01-10-2012 08:50 AM

ftw, HLJ, ftw

classicman 01-10-2012 10:55 AM

@ HLJ :notworthy

TheMercenary 01-12-2012 09:45 AM

The dad probably just had the kids for his monthly weekend visit.


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