Slightly wierd Christmas Eve
 

I accepted an invitation for Christmas Eve, thinking it would be a group gathering. It turns out that it will just be my host, "Bill," Bill's niece, her S.O. and me. The niece is pregnant and not married to her S.O. She is being supported by Bill who complains about the situation often. I feel very uncomfortable being the outsider in what may be a tense family situation. I would never have said I'd come had I known. How do I deal with this in a gracious manner?

Um... unscheduled emergency?

"I think I'm coming down with H1N1"
"My cat's sick"

I have to admit that "calling in sick" is highly appealing. How do I get myself into these things, anyway? :headshake

Go, get real drunk real fast, the rest won't matter. ;)

Psssssssssst XOB :eyebrow:

:stickpoke

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Tell them you're hiking the Appalachian Trail.

What is your relationship with "Bill"? As in, are you close to the extent that his invitation might be a request for emotional support? And if so, you might need to be more sensitive in your excuse than you would if you were little more than passing acquaintances, for who a potential h1n1 relapse would be just fine. If you do chuck a sickie, pick something pregnant women should avoid being exposed to.

SamIam,

Being that you are all "on the wagon" and shit I think it is entirely ok for you to bow out gracefully saying you truly need to manage your very real holiday stress by excusing yourself from Bill's gathering. Be gracious and thankful, but be firm in taking care of your needs, vis-a-vis sobriety and avoiding triggers that would make you, and just about everyone else, want to seriously bevv-up.

Bill should understand. Especially if his last name begins with a W.
;)

BTW. You don't owe it to anyone to take care of them unless they are your own underage spoor.

Bill is more an aquaintance than a friend. I think he would go to other people besides me if he wanted support. Its amazing how quickly those flu symptoms come on, isn't it?

Its amazing how quickly those flu symptoms come on, isn't it?

You Are Looking a Bit Green around the Gills .

Best stay Home and heal up .

I like foot's advice. Honesty is usually the best policy.

Oh yeah, sorry. :blush:

No problem, Bruce! ;)

usually, but not always, especially if honesty involves revealling some personal issues that you'd rather not share.

eeeeewwww, sam, please try to do that in your elbow or a Kleenex next time. I had no idea it was possible for lurgy molecules to fly that far. impressive!