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john bainz 11-11-2009 05:31 AM

Masters of deception... He or She?
 
Who's better at lying?
Men or Women?

And who's better at gossip?
A couple of months ago there was a pole done amongst UK women to determine how long a female could keep confidential information to themselves.

The pole revealed that most british females couldn't keep the information to themselves for more than one to two days.

What is the general consensus around the world?

limey 11-11-2009 06:05 AM

dunno but I've met equally good male and female gossips ...

casimendocina 11-11-2009 06:31 AM

Men are definitely better at two things:
1). deluding themselves that what they're saying is the absolute truth.
2). saying absolute crap with bravado so that it is less likely that they will be questioned.

i.e. Speak loudly and confidently and you'll probably get away with it.

monster 11-11-2009 07:49 AM

and here I was expecting a parade of androgy and to humiliate myself by getting at least 70% wrong.....

lumberjim 11-11-2009 08:14 AM

I keep a secret very well. my technique is simple. I just forget it.

I could hide my own easter eggs.

monster 11-11-2009 08:15 AM

:lol:

john bainz 11-11-2009 08:37 AM

Like your technique...
 
...But then how do you know what you've forgotten?
;):o

skysidhe 11-11-2009 08:51 AM

Although I like what casimendocia says I believe that men are less gossipy. At least I prefer the company of men. I do have female friends. They are not gossipy. I am not a gossipy person so it's hard to understand that mind frame and contribute in a gossip session.

As for lying. I have not encountered too many lairs in real life to know.

Spexxvet 11-11-2009 09:05 AM

Masters of deception... He or She?

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skysidhe 11-11-2009 09:28 AM

He is beautiful.

Now get that fricken thing off! < My original first thought.

You ruined the thread. :P

lumberjim 11-11-2009 09:29 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by john bainz (Post 607471)
...But then how do you know what you've forgotten?
;):o

What were we talking about again?

Cloud 11-11-2009 10:58 AM

all people are liars and gossips in general. If you ask me I think women gossip more and men lie more, but that's merely an opinion. I doubt it has anything to do with geography.

xoxoxoBruce 11-11-2009 11:14 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by casimendocina (Post 607443)
2). saying absolute crap with bravado so that it is less likely that they will be questioned.

Do you think that's more effective than whispering in conspiratorial tones, while glancing left and right?

Quote:

Originally Posted by john bainz (Post 607471)
...But then how do you know what you've forgotten?
;):o

Jinx (Mrs LJ), never forgets.

casimendocina 11-11-2009 06:23 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by xoxoxoBruce (Post 607551)
Do you think that's more effective than whispering in conspiratorial tones, while glancing left and right?


Absolutely!

ZenGum 11-11-2009 06:58 PM

I don't "gossip"; I share relevant and useful personal information with the goal of maintaining and strengthening social networks and interpersonal relationships.

I certainly can and do keep secrets.

For once, I am going to (pre-emptively) side with Merc's distrust of surveys. How can you do a survey that asks people whether and how often they lie?


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