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thrillhouse 03-23-2006 05:00 PM

Celebacy or Hot Meaningless Sex
 
please discuss. i need voices outside of my head for perspective.

thrillhouse 03-23-2006 05:04 PM

somethin' has gotta give. i can't even spell celibacy. at first, it looked like celery. i thought, okay. posted my thread/poll. then, i realized. . . not okay. just to clarify. . . this thread is not about being vegetarian.

Trilby 03-23-2006 05:31 PM

If my choices are celibacy or hot, meaningless sex, I'm going with the sex. Sex is good for you, good for your brain, good for your body and good for your mood. It's positively engergizing! :doit:

marichiko 03-23-2006 05:41 PM

I'll take celibacy. I tried doing the hot, meaningless sex thing and ended up falling in love with the ax murderer. BLECH! Next time around, I want to fall for a man's brain, not his balls. But that's just my own sadder but wiser experience. :headshake

thrillhouse 03-23-2006 06:17 PM

ladies, i appreciate both points of view. not only appreciate, but i feel exactely the way you both do.

that's the dilemma. :whtblk:

jojo 03-23-2006 07:27 PM

i would guess that after a few encounters, the sex would become much less hot if there was no meaning. as humans we need connection, not just physically but emotionally. but on the other hand, lack of human touch is dangerous emotionally, too. so there you have it: i don't know.:neutral:

jojo 03-23-2006 07:33 PM

ok, i've thought about it some more, go for the celibacy because you don't feel dirty afterwords and you don't have to hide that goofy smile all day!:D

xoxoxoBruce 03-23-2006 07:46 PM

I like goofy smiles.:blush:

capnhowdy 03-23-2006 08:01 PM

I couldn't vote. I was torn. Why not have both? :doit:

Kagen4o4 03-23-2006 08:02 PM

hot meaningless sex. i have friends to have meaningful relationships with without sex.
if i wasnt having sex the only thing i would be able to think about would be having hot sex whether it was meaningful or not.

jojo 03-23-2006 08:22 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by xoxoxoBruce
I like goofy smiles.:blush:

:blush: was that flirting a little with me? i changed my mind again SEX SEX -- I MEANT TO SAY SEX!:biggrinlo:

Clodfobble 03-23-2006 10:08 PM

If it's definitely hot meaningless sex, then I vote for the sex. But to me, meaningless sex has almost (note I said almost) always been the exact opposite of hot.

Hubris Boy 03-23-2006 11:06 PM

<p>Celibacy. Without a doubt. It's not nearly as much fun, sure, but it's a lot cheaper and a LOT less complicated.<br>
Did anybody notice that "celibate" is on the same page as "cellar" in the dictionary? Coincidence? Maybe. Or maybe not...</p>

thrillhouse 03-23-2006 11:12 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Hubris Boy
Did anybody notice that "celibate" is on the same page as "cellar" in the dictionary? Coincidence? Maybe. Or maybe not...

ye gads boy!. . . . am i to be neutered as penance for posting here? ;)

Kagen4o4 03-23-2006 11:34 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by thrillhouse
ye gads boy!. . . . am i to be neutered as penance for posting here? ;)

well...yes.
:nadkick:


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