If any of you think you don't like me...
 

... Think again. lol. You have nothing on this woman. My ex husbands wife.

Check her fb page.

https://www.facebook.com/lagitoaolealofa.vaeluasooalo

No facebook.

I wondered where you'd gone!

this was amusing:

come on, did you really post stuff and not mention her name?

that was kind of exhausting.

I hope the flames have died out.

There was only one, and it was an observation about her posting as her husband then answering herself as herself. It was a few days ago. If you look at my page you can see it.

The woman is mental. lol. Off her tree.

I think she still has some steam left. lol

Oh, she has blocked me now. lol

Not sure if you can all still see...if you want to.

she looks cute. I don't have facebook anymore. is there anyway you could introduce me?

lol. I would never be so cruel sarge!

Yeah, Facebook drama? You go, girl! The uncool-est thing ever...hands down.

Did not read, do not care. Nobody with a human soul cares about your bitchy Facebook bullshit.

I wasn't sure if I liked you before, so thanks for clearing things up. Now I'm 100% certain that I wouldn't care if you died in a fire.

/my Cellar post for this month

You think i give a shit if you dont like me? lol

Have a blessed day.

You do realize that you've made a thread titled "If any of you think you don't like me... " ???

I think maybe you do care if we like you. Are you Ok, Ali? This is kind of a strange thread. Maybe if you took a minute and wrote down your feelings and shared them with the group we could try to help you understand where these feelings are coming from.

Sometimes an objective view point is all you need. I just mean that it is unclear how this conflict began. I looked at the young lady's face book page, and the references to the conflict are just as vague as yours are. Is there some kind of history of bad blood between you two? Did she steal your homework, or your boyfriend or something? Maybe she disssed you in front of the whole class or something? Or is she just like, you know, a bully or something?

Anyway, we're here for you, girlfriend. Say the word, and we'll all get in the van and go TP her trailer. I could fill her locker with spray foam or put a mouse down her back in biology class. I sit right behind her.

Oh...I know. I will ask her to the Halloween dance, and then set it up so we win King and Queen. .. but then we'll dump pigs blood over her head as she's being coronated!

You do realise it was meant to be joke??? Surely you're not that stupid. Still, nice to know where you stand, so thanks for that.

She's married to my older boys father. This bullshit has been going on for a while now. She blocks access between me and Kal, and the kids and Kal. She is mental. This all started because i wanted to talk to him about the kids going to visit in a month or so. They recently moved and i didnt have their new details so messaged her on fb. My words were, 'i need to talk to kal about the boys. Can you ask him to call me please.'. Her response was 'FUCK YOU'. That is not a joke. I will post the whole convo if you want.

Oh! Well I totally fell for it. You were kidding? Oh jeez do I feel like a boob. You got me good. I owe ya one.

Oh....yoooooouuuuuu!

I have posted about this situation before. Specifically when the kids were over there at easter time and she decided to stop me from talking to them from their home comp, so the kids racked up massive mobile bills.

Honestly, her behaviour is seriously crazy.

The tread isnt a joke. The title was.

I was responding to flint. Sorry jim.

And honestly, i am not really alright. Not much that can be done about it though. I cqn get a court order specifying she cant block access, but shes not the sort of person who would honour it, and the police have better things to do than enforce those sorts of orders. Kal needs to step up, but i dont think he even knows half of whats going on.

No no don't. I was just being a shit like I do. I didn't make the connection. Don't air this laundry. I'm sorry you have to deal with a crazy. ... what do you call the relationship between you and the ex's new wife/husband/ S.O.?.....

Anyway, yeah. Sorry theres a nut bar in your kids life. Only advice I have for real is not to deal with her on her level. Be the adult. vent here, but don't mix the two worlds. Mav has an acct here right?

Yeah he does, but shes been abusing them too, so he knows whats going on. He doesnt say anything to her, but aden fights back. This is how low the woman is. She told aden she never wants to see him again. Shes his stepmother. He's still a kid (in most ways). What sort of person behaves that way?

Anyway, the kids are going back there, but they will be staying with their aunt and cousins. They will be in wellington. Their father in Auckland unless he decides to make the drive and spend time with them.

Well I'm still willing to do the mouse thing if you need me to.

Haha...she'd probably use it for her wicked brew.

I'm sorry the psycho is in your life. I don't have any advice. The only observation I have it that you can't control her. You can only control how you behave interacting with her. So make sure to behave in a way that makes you and your family proud.

And Jim, WTF, man. How are you posting from 3:45am to 5am? It's not like you are in a European time zone. Those are ungodly hours.

Actually, i was wondering the same thing about him posting at that time of night. Insomnia?

Yeah. That couch got me. Sat down to watch the highlights of the game that I missed because I was at work until 11:34 last night. ...I swear this couch was made by a narcoleptic evil genius. ... so I passed out somewhere between 12:30 and 1:00, woke up at 3:30 with my back teeth floating and a headache.

If I go back to sleep with a headache, it doubles. I'm in at 1pm today, so I killed some time while the advil took effect.

My col sanders tie finally got here yesterday, so I tried the costume on too. It's perfect. Well. ... one thing. The cane I borrowed is a brown standard type of cane. He used a black pistol grip type.

Oh, and my goatee. ... but I'm considering trimming it to match and then after, whacking it all down to stubble and going back to the full face beard from there.

I have to deal with a psycho ex all the time. It has driven me to the point I only check my email once a week, keep my cellphone turned off, and don't have any social media accounts. I know it is childish, but after awhile the words hurt and our child suffers too

Then you need something that will really cheer you up, like a ménage à trois with Aliantha and her ex's new wife.

I think that would be more like jelly wrestling.

Hey, I'm plump but lovable, maybe a little hairy

Wow, I did read parts of that... Anyone who reads it will see her anger, her down right hate, and her definitely noticeable mood swings, this includes the kids. Stay strong hun.. vent if you need to, but be your kids best defense by trying not to stoop to her very low, unstable level. She is a racist, and a mean person from just the 5 mins I wasted looking at her wall! She is not worth your time of stress :) Do what you need to for your kids, but remember there will be no actual reasoning with this type of person. She thrives on making as many people around her miserable as she can.

And WOW she calls herself a Mormon?!?!?!?!?!?!?!!?

Yeah, as you can see, i havent participated in any of her posts, so its pretty much her posting to her audience.

I agree that shes not a good example of christian behaviour.