goodbye
 

as some of you know, things have really been tough for me lately. i am unemployed and my tumors have returned. when i returned from the va hospital today, i found out that i will no longer be in bryanna's and addie's life. this is not my choice. i'm sitting here looking at their gifts. anyway, this is the last picture i have of them

Oh, Sarge. :( I'm so sorry. Why won't you be able to see the girls anymore? Surely you have rights as a parent?

Oh fuck, man.

No one is better off for this.

Hey Sarge, please stick with us as long as you can.

I take it that either you or they are moving away since the alternative would be that you fucked up.

Oh honey. I just don;t even know what to say. How fucking horrible. *hugs*

No, no, no, no, no.
This is all wrong.

What happened Sarge? You adore those girls. You are such a positive influence in their lives. How on earth can a decision be made (in your absence?) that you can't see them?

If the answers are too personal for the main board then please explain via PM or email - when you are ready of course.

Surely this is something that can/ will be resolved?
I'm puzzled as to how it can involve both of them anyway.
But mostly - almost entirely - just heartbroken for you. I know your children (and those you have "adopted") mean the world to you. I can understand that this must hurt more than a kick in the nuts. With steel toe-caps.

You got Addie back once. Maybe you can again.
In the mean time I am hurting on your behalf.
I sent you a small package for Christmas. Something for Addie in there. Hope it doesn't hurt too much.
Unless Elizabeth is into Disney princesses...

That's terrible news. I'm sorry, Sarge.

I'm so sorry, Sarge. :(

I'm so sorry man. Is there anything you can do?

Oh, Sarge, my heart goes out to you. Please, please stay in touch. I hope there's some possibility of fighting for continued contact with the girls. So sorry.

Don't we have any lawyers on this forum who can do something about this?

Sarge, that's not fair.

Adding my voice to the chorus ... how can that possibly be the case? You are so much the responsive and caring dad - how can you not have access to your kids? I really hope you can get some help sorting this out, once and for all.

Sent by thought transference.

I don't know enough about this to say confidently something useful.

I have questions, first among them, what the fuck?

But I do know that almost everything can be appealed. And I mean everything, from legal arguments issued by the courts to bullying threats from angry individuals. I sure wish I knew more. Until then, I'll just suffer in sadness with you Sarge. That's fucked up.

Good luck Sarge. Do everything you can to keep them in your life.

Sarge, if you're reading this, please don't do anything rash. I'm extremely worried about you. I haven't called because first, I figured you need space, and second, you don't usually answer my calls. I will try to call you (hopefully it's still the same number).

my tumors have returned.

today, i found out that i will no longer be in bryanna's and addie's life.

please tell me that these statements are unrelated?

Hold up...what now?

Why can't you be a part of their lives??


and what is the next step regarding the tumors?

DO not give up. Never, ever, ever give up. No matter how grim or bleak or hopeless things seem right this moment, fate is fickle and everything could be different tomorrow...as long as you refuse to quit.

Is there anything I can do, or any of us here? Sometimes, just a sympathetic voice is a huge boost. PM me if you'd like a phone call.

Hey Big Sarge.

It's time for you to check in with your friends here. Please give us an update.

Thanks in advance.

I was simply hit with a triple whammy at once. I got the medical bad news and then the 2 bitches with borderline personality disorders took the chance to hit me while I was at a low point. One went as far as wanting my Addie to call her new lover/live-in "daddy" so it wouldn't be confusing

I swear there is a special place in Hell for women who use children to hurt you

You're goddam skippy.

That's evil.

oh there had better be, or I'll go there myself just to create it.

glad you checked in.

Here you go, Sarge

I am still not seeing Addie. Her mother has the nerve to ask me to pay for Addie's gymnastics. Since I'm not the daddy, why should I pay???

But, Addie would be the one to suffer. I guess I will pay

monster - your typing looks better today, have you been drinking beer??

no, I've been working hard to overcome the effects of my brain damage. you can't drink beer with stroke medication. Well you can, but it's dumb.

I'm sorry. I was just trying to make a joke with you. My tremors smooth out when I drink alcohol. Like I said in the other post, I can be such a dumb ass

But you are our dumb ass :comfort:

Then you'll know where she will be if you want to see her.

Sarge, I know you will keep on doing what you have been doing and what you can afford.
You love these girls.
I can't even suggest you are more careful where you stick your dick as I know Bryanna is not your birth daughter.

Come over here and knock me up. I'd be a terrible Mum, but at least I'd get some sex out of it.

I'm saving my pennies...I haven't had an offer like that in about 30 years and she wasn't nearly as beautiful as you are.

sundae is so full of it. she'd make a GREAT mom.

I agree totally

Sorry for your pain Sarge.

Hey, you banged a woman who had freckles and big titties. I got thread veins and saggy dugs. But then again, I'm offering, which I understand is pretty irrestible.
You don't hear what I say to Diz. Poor little chap would be at the shrink already if he could understand me.

I do admit I would like another son, but I'm almost 53. I guess I should sit back and wait for grandkids.