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monster 03-26-2011 11:32 AM

Weapons in School: Zero Tolerance
 
What does it/should it mean?

Real weapons? check

But what about:
  • pocket knives
  • nail clippers
  • knitting needles
  • halloween costume replica weapons
  • guns make out of lego
  • swords made out of sticks
  • fingers pointed like guns
  • talking about weapons
  • drawing pictures of weapons
  • books containing images of weapons
  • writing about weapons
  • plastic knives in lunch boxes
  • shirts with images of weapons
  • Buffalo Sabres shirts

And if zero tolerance really means zero, how are students to learn about the civil war?

If you can, please try not to bring politics into this, just offer your personal opinion on where the line should be drawn (the above are not necessarily in an order where you need to draw a line and those above are OK, those below are not....) it is true, however, that I was surprised to be told that my child had been warned about one of the above behaviours/actions and told it wasn't OK due to the "zero tolerance".

footfootfoot 03-26-2011 11:41 AM

war is not teh fluffeh. hush your un pc mouf

zippyt 03-26-2011 12:13 PM

I agree up this point ,
* guns make out of lego
* swords made out of sticks
* fingers pointed like guns WTF ???
* talking about weapons Free speech ??
* drawing pictures of weapons
* books containing images of weapons So much for History or LOTS of Art
* writing about weapons Again free speach
* plastic knives in lunch boxes
* shirts with images of weapons
* Buffalo Sabres shirts WTF is this

This just PC Bull shit

Undertoad 03-26-2011 12:21 PM

It's not actually a "zero tolerance" policy if she was only warned. If she violated the policy, she should be expelled.

glatt 03-26-2011 12:31 PM

"zero tolerance" policies are stupid. Teachers and administration should make judgment calls based on each situation, and they should be intelligent about it.

When I was in high school, we were studying ancient and medieval history, and one of the students brought in a home made mace for "show and tell." The teacher was pleased.

footfootfoot 03-26-2011 12:53 PM

In Jr. High woodshop class I built a functioning replica of a medieval crossbow (illegal in New York State at the time) I got an A.

and another thing, I can't stand intolerance.

As I'm typing this my son comes up to me to tell me that a million of his soldiers are fighting 3 robots who are bionic, nuclear (not nucular) and "dynamitish"

sexobon 03-26-2011 12:54 PM

OTOH, thank goodness there's zero tolerance for kids having sex in schools: we don't want them learning how to use sex as a weapon. Add that to the list.

GunMaster357 03-26-2011 03:57 PM

Well, that policy forgot to ban one very important weapon. The students themselves.

With good training, any human being can use his own body as a weapon, sometimes a letal one.

monster 03-26-2011 04:15 PM

That's not the policy. That's just a list of suggestions to consider. but I like your way of thinking. Are they allowed to bring legs to school if they promise not to kick anyone?

footfootfoot 03-26-2011 05:32 PM


GunMaster357 03-26-2011 06:44 PM

Not karate but capoiera

casimendocina 03-26-2011 10:07 PM

I was watching the The men who stare at goats a couple of nights ago, then followed up by checking out the website of the book it was based on. According to the author's website, the military in this particular section have a weapon which looks perfectly harmless (like a bottle opener from what I could see), but can be used for a myriad of pain inducing techniques including twisting fingers and more worryingly inserting it into someone's ear canal which leaves no visible damage, but causes a huge amount of pain. I'm guessing this kind 2nd one could easily be done with a pencil or pen as well...I don't think this generation would be the first to use their writing implements as weapons.

toranokaze 03-26-2011 11:33 PM

Everything is a weapon.
Hell we used to play a game where someone would name an object and the rest of us would think of ways to kill a person with the object.

footfootfoot 03-26-2011 11:53 PM

a Ricola candy

casimendocina 03-27-2011 12:11 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by footfootfoot (Post 718861)
a Ricola candy

In the movie About a Boy, the bullies torment the main character by throwing sweets at him.

monster 03-27-2011 12:35 AM

so c'mon. what is and what isn't OK?

monster 03-27-2011 12:40 AM

I reviewed the district policy on weapons, and I have to say I'm not impressed by this teacher's interpretation of it.....

Quote:

Weapons:
A. Dangerous Weapon. A dangerous weapon shall include a firearm
(including a starter gun) or any device which will or is designed to or may
readily be converted to expel a projectile by the action of an explosive, any
destructive device or any explosive, incendiary, or poison gas bomb, grenade,
rocket having a propellant charge of more than four (4) ounces, missile having
an explosive or incendiary charge of more than one-quarter ounce, mine or
similar device; a dagger, dirk, stiletto, knife with a blade over three (3) inches in
length, or pocket knife opened by a mechanical device, an iron bar or brass
knuckles; or, any other weapon as set forth in 18 USC&921. Also, any electronic
device that inflicts or causes pain or suffering is likewise considered a weapon.


B. Other Weapon. Any object or instrument including a replica, facsimile or
look-alike of such object or instrument, the principal use of which is to inflict
injury, physical pain or physical harm. The term “other weapon” shall additionally
include an object or instrument which is not in and of itself a weapon as defined
above, but where the possession or use of same is coupled with an intent by a
student to inflict injury or harm upon another person. Chemical or toxic
substances, e.g., mace, pepper spray, etc., are included in this category.
I don't see where drawing a picture of a gun (which is what my kid did) is a no-no -it may be a replica if you really stretch that, but it isn't an object or implement...

Griff 03-27-2011 06:42 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by footfootfoot (Post 718861)
a Ricola candy

licorice is a slow lingering death

GunMaster357 03-27-2011 08:00 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by monster (Post 718870)
I reviewed the district policy on weapons, and I have to say I'm not impressed by this teacher's interpretation of it.....



I don't see where drawing a picture of a gun (which is what my kid did) is a no-no -it may be a replica if you really stretch that, but it isn't an object or implement...

Someone in the bureaucracy told the school : "No Weapon Policy". And then they forgot to use one of their own : a brain.

If I had children, I would seriously question the validity of the school's teachings since they're such morons.

footfootfoot 03-27-2011 09:40 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by casimendocina (Post 718865)
In the movie About a Boy, the bullies torment the main character by throwing sweets at him.

Whereas the directors of that film tormented me by alternately making me watch hugh grant while trying not to imagine him with that tranny looking hooker, and watching Toni Collette with far too many clothes on.

sexobon 03-27-2011 10:38 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by glatt (Post 718805)
... Teachers and administration should make judgment calls based on each situation ...

Quote:

Originally Posted by monster (Post 718869)
so c'mon. what is and what isn't OK?

I agree with glatt on his point. That's why I find it disconcerting that you at first withheld the nature of the alleged offense and you're still withholding the specific circumstances under which it occurred. Why did your child draw a picture of a gun? Since a picture can be worth a thousand words, a picture of a gun can be an historical account, an indicator of violent feelings/intent; or, anything in between. Intent is key to making a determination in such instances. Was the picture appropriate to the academic circumstances (more than just a tangent)? If not, it probably wasn't appropriate to the venue. If so, then perhaps the teacher was promoting a personal agenda rather than an academic climate. There is no line to be drawn between "Other weapon[s]" without knowing the full circumstances of the specific instance in which they're used; because, that's where people's perceptions about them mainly come from.

footfootfoot 03-27-2011 08:02 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sexobon (Post 718880)
Why did your child draw a picture of a gun?

because he is a boy.

monster 03-27-2011 08:03 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by footfootfoot (Post 718914)
because he is a boy.

bingo.

monster 03-27-2011 08:07 PM

But the whole thing bout "zero tolerance" is the "why" is irrelevant. Either it's OK or it isn't. I guess because Jack can bring a gun into school to kill Jill, but when caught, claim it was for show and tell. Fine. Guns/People with guns hurt people. I get it. Fake weapons. Well they look like real weapons, they could be used to intimidate. I get it. Lego guns, Sticks like swords, pointed fingers, I sorta get it but I think mostly kids need to be taught to shrug it off if they don't like it. Drawing a picture of gun? HTF is that a threat to the safety of any other student?

footfootfoot 03-27-2011 08:09 PM

I has one ;) (& I is one)

footfootfoot 03-27-2011 08:15 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by monster (Post 718918)
Drawing a picture of gun? HTF is that a threat to the safety of any other student?

It could lead to critical thinking and or independent thinking.

BTW, unless the school is private and receives no funding from the government this is in fact a freedom of speech issue. Unless they can show that he is inciting to riot, that drawing is protected speech. They are not allowed to ban that speech unless they are wholly private.

monster 03-27-2011 08:26 PM

thanks, I'm headed that way with the teacher. I'm currently awaiting his response on the drawing weapios while studying civil war thing (which they just did...) -he didn't seem to have a problem with pictures of guns then....

I suspect it's really about drawing when he should be doing something else, and it's got to a point where the something else is irrelevant to my kid so he argues that and wins. teacher saves face with "inappropriate subject matter". I could be wrong, but I bet I'm not. That's what you get when you Open School. Sometimes the kids are going to be smarter than the teachers in some respects. In "regular" schooling that is supressed for the "greater good". At Open School, teachers get schooled sometimes :lol:

Big Sarge 03-27-2011 10:32 PM

Lordy. Ya'll just need to move down south where folks have more common sense about weapons. When my son did a report on the War of Northern Aggression, he gave a musket firing demo with a 9 count load. He also demonstrated fix bayonets

xoxoxoBruce 03-27-2011 10:55 PM

The War of Northern Aggression? :lol:

I've got news for you, Han shot first.

ZenGum 03-28-2011 02:22 AM

Sorry, Sarge, but naming rights go to the winners.

Except "Operation Enduring Freedom". But that isn't a name, it's just :jagoff:

infinite monkey 03-28-2011 07:55 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ZenGum (Post 718945)
Sorry, Sarge, but naming rights go to the winners.

Except "Operation Enduring Freedom". But that isn't a name, it's just :jagoff:

Ha! But it sounds so warm and fuzzy!

Wagging the dog.

casimendocina 03-28-2011 07:57 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by footfootfoot (Post 718879)
Whereas the directors of that film tormented me by alternately making me watch hugh grant while trying not to imagine him with that tranny looking hooker, and watching Toni Collette with far too many clothes on.

Image of tranny looking hooker please. Confus-ed. Do you mean Rachel Weiss?

glatt 03-28-2011 08:03 AM

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Smoking Gun

infinite monkey 03-28-2011 08:10 AM

Which one's the tranny?

aside: saw Transamerica this weekend. What a great movie.

Spexxvet 03-28-2011 08:15 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by footfootfoot (Post 718920)
BTW, unless the school is private and receives no funding from the government this is in fact a freedom of speech issue. Unless they can show that he is inciting to riot, that drawing is protected speech. They are not allowed to ban that speech unless they are wholly private.


Free Speech Rights of Students

http://law2.umkc.edu/faculty/project...dentspeech.htm


sexobon 03-28-2011 09:21 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by monster (Post 718918)
But the whole thing bout "zero tolerance" is the "why" is irrelevant. ...

Policies (or parts thereof in this case) may just be guidelines that allow for judgment calls based upon the circumstances, they're not always definitive. Consider a child who gets into a disagreement with a teacher (perhaps over what the child should be concentrating on during class) and is admonished; then, the child sits down and draws a picture of a gun knowing full well the teacher is going to see it. That's harassment; but, the teacher may find it difficult to prove because the child, well, "he is a boy" and that's what boys do. Sometimes pictures are innocent; but, sometimes they're indications of something else going on. Parents can be the last to acknowledge that since their children's actions reflect opon them. Keep an open mind.
Quote:

... Drawing a picture of gun? HTF is that a threat to the safety of any other student?
No brainer: It can be an early indicator of something that may escalate into harm to others; or, self-inflicted harm. You can't advocate teaching other kids to just shrug it off in today's proactive environment of school violence awareness without coming off as being egocentric.

casimendocina 03-28-2011 10:12 AM

Re Hugh Grant-I'd forgotten about Divine Brown (was that her name?)

casimendocina 03-28-2011 10:47 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by footfootfoot (Post 718879)
Whereas the directors of that film tormented me by [making me] watch... Toni Collette with far too many clothes on.

Was it the clothes themselves you objected to?

footfootfoot 03-28-2011 02:44 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Spexxvet (Post 718981)

Excellent link. It brings up the issue of intent and context. If Monster's son had been taunting a kid whose family had been gunned down the week before, probably not protected. But in the absence of any specific circumstances, just drawing a picture of a gun is hardly impeding the school's mission to teach. While the act of drawing, in itself, may have been disruptive, then that is what the charge should be, not invoking the zero tolerance policy for guns.
Quote:

Originally Posted by casimendocina (Post 719043)
Was it the clothes themselves you objected to?

yes. their existence was offensive to me. I much preferred http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Japanese_Story

casimendocina 03-28-2011 08:01 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by footfootfoot (Post 719125)
yes. their existence was offensive to me. I much preferred http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Japanese_Story


Yes, Toni Collette was much more corporately dressed in that. That was a very uneven movie. There were some fantastic scenes, but also some really stupid bits in that movie that annoyed me incredibly like the whole dessert vs desert scene.... but we should now probably move this to the movie thread if we're going to continue.

monster 03-28-2011 09:11 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by footfootfoot (Post 719125)
Excellent link. It brings up the issue of intent and context. If Monster's son had been taunting a kid whose family had been gunned down the week before, probably not protected. But in the absence of any specific circumstances, just drawing a picture of a gun is hardly impeding the school's mission to teach. While the act of drawing, in itself, may have been disruptive, then that is what the charge should be, not invoking the zero tolerance policy for guns.

Quite. It was actually in "free time" apparently. And if it had been the former, I think bullying would have been the issue rather than weapons. But zero tolerance does not allow for intent.

monster 03-28-2011 09:13 PM

I was mostly surprised because he's been in school 5 years. he's a boy. He draws guns. He's not alone. How is this the first time I've heard it's not OK? Being fair, he's 4th grade but his drawing level is Kindergarten. And he knows it. So now he labels his drawings. Maybe they just didn't know he was drawing guns before?

monster 03-28-2011 09:14 PM

(they still don't look like guns, ffs)

Happy Monkey 03-28-2011 09:28 PM

I have zero tolerance for zero tolerance policies. Zero tolerance policies themselves are the common-sense exception which makes this zero tolerance policy OK.

sexobon 03-29-2011 04:17 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by monster (Post 718870)
... I don't see where drawing a picture of a gun (which is what my kid did) is a no-no -it may be a replica if you really stretch that, but it isn't an object or implement...

Quote:

B. Other Weapon. Any object or instrument including a replica, facsimile or look-alike of such object or instrument ...
The policy doesn't say implement, it says instrument and a picture is an instrument of communication that can easily be used to communicate a threat.
Quote:

... where the possession or use of same is coupled with an intent by a student to inflict injury or harm upon another person. ...
When it comes to "other weapons," the policy clearly takes intent into consideration. Harm does not have to be physical, it can be emotional and harm can occur whether the student intends for it to happen or not. The policy only holds the student responsible for intentional harm which seems quite fair to me.
Quote:

Originally Posted by monster (Post 719214)
Quite. It was actually in "free time" apparently. ...

That pretty much rules out the act of drawing as a distraction the teacher was addressing. The issue seems to be with the subject matter.
Quote:

Originally Posted by monster (Post 719214)
But zero tolerance does not allow for intent.

I take it you're referring to the teacher and not the written policy which is why you're not satisfied with the teacher's determination under that policy.

Ironically, dissatisfied parents contribute to zero tolerance policies in schools. Such policies can be applied uniformly without teachers having to psychoanalyze students and look into their backgrounds to determine intent. Teachers thereby avoid making mistakes in judgment calls that may have dire consequences. They avoid prohibiting some students from doing things that most others are allowed to do; also, the parent-teacher confrontations that arise from such situations. It's a catch 22 for the teacher: they're damned if they do and damned if they don't.

The teacher was probably better off, with the variance in political correctness surrounding this issue, by avoiding making judgment calls and applying the same precautionary standard to all students. The teacher can simply claim there wasn't sufficient information or time to make an accurate determination. It forces parental intervention and places the onus for any adverse ramifications, of children drawing pictures of weapons in school, on the parents and the teacher's superiors. This seems to me like the most plausible explanation (personal agenda) for the teacher having intervened without taking disciplinary action under the circumstances you've described thus far.

It wouldn't fly with me either; but, I recognize that good people can have bad ideas. I try to separate the person from the idea.

footfootfoot 03-29-2011 08:29 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by casimendocina (Post 719194)
Yes, Toni Collette was much more corporately dressed in that. That was a very uneven movie. There were some fantastic scenes, but also some really stupid bits in that movie that annoyed me incredibly like the whole dessert vs desert scene.... but we should now probably move this to the movie thread if we're going to continue.

ok let's. I love Australian cinema. More on this movie later.

BigV 04-07-2011 04:52 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by footfootfoot (Post 719125)
Excellent link. It brings up the issue of intent and context. If Monster's son had been taunting a kid whose family had been gunned down the week before, probably not protected. But in the absence of any specific circumstances, just drawing a picture of a gun is hardly impeding the school's mission to teach. While the act of drawing, in itself, may have been disruptive, then that is what the charge should be, not invoking the zero tolerance policy for guns.

yes. their existence was offensive to me. I much preferred
SPOILER ALERT!!!
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Japanese_Story
SPOILER ALERT!!!

Hey... fixed that for you. a little late for some of us, but hey.


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