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The train wreck....
I used to blog about my online and real life dating experiences, and will probably continue to do so, but I would really rather have a little thread here that I can let stuff spew from my mouth and you guys can comment...or not...as you seem fit.
I put the moz on myself with this latest guy, in chat the other day I mentioned how much I liked him and how I had high expectations.....now...nothing!! At the moment, I'm being really girly and sitting on my hands so I dont do the dumb txt message thing. I *really* like this guy...like.. really...and have gone into over analysing, self destructive mode. |
You can let it all hang out here, without repercussions. We'll love you longtime, regardless. :heartpump
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Oh goodie. I can enjoy dating vicariously to prepare me for the real thing! |
Just ring him and suggest a date mate. Don't agonize or wring your hands, and definitely don't do nothing.
One phone call with a suggestion of a meeting is not psycho behaviour, and it's not over the top. It's just an indication of your desire to spend some time with said male. That's what I think. |
I'm sitting on my hands....he's been really busy....trains race horses....so I am just waiting and seeing what happens.
He's s'posed to have a couple of days off this week and was going to come over here for them....so....just.waiting. Oh and I should probably clarify things regarding photographer-dude...he's just really a fuckbuddy...we are the people we sleep with, when we arent sleeping with anyone else. Anyways, I posted in the other thread the quote from his email to me, he's realised the penthouse chick is a whacker...living in the past....so now he wants to know when he can come...err...banging on my door again. Funny...I see him in a slightly different light, after he fell for the b/s she was feeding him. |
Yeah, if you already have plans made with him, I'd say keep those hands nice and squashed. You can wait it out.
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Which one is the guy you were considering relocating for?
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Ha.....keep up with my men jinx :p ....he dumped me, see this thread.
See, this will keep up the dumpedness in one thread. |
Did he have an identifying characteristic though, like photographer guy and army guy? And what are we calling the new guy? Help me out here...
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How about some charts or diagrams?
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He was electrician guy...lets call the new guy Horse guy. ;)
Horse guy txt me before and said he's been super busy....yay!! Quote:
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Thanks ducks, this will help me to follow it all more accurately. But I'm more of a visual guy, so...;)
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I can put a picture of each of their penises...peni...peniseseses in here if that helps you Lookout?
You know I would do anything for you :) |
Horse guy. lol! That's so funny in so many ways, ok, let's call him that.
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i guess that depends on what the peni are doing at the time ducks. ;)
seriously though i just had this image of you collecting photos of every penis you've seen. like tacked up on your wall or something "hey look, a collage!" |
Doesnt every girl have a penis collage on their wall?
Yes?? No?? Oh... |
I've dated women whom I am pretty sure had peni in jars of formaldehyde...
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Thats why I no longer date women with collections of knives... an daggers... an axes. Being a notch on th bed post is degrading enough. Being a center piece in a jar, well, I jus couldn't live with th shame. An insisting you ave your lovers spats in public places gets old... :right:
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I think it's low brow to air your problems in public. It's unpleasant to listen to couples argue in public places. Even pubs.
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so this won't be a thread you'll be a regular in then?
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What are you talking about?
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Nothing. I was just being a smartass, but now I realize that I misread the sequence of a couple posts. So I'll just leave this as yet further evidence of my dumbassery.
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Oh well that's ok. Glad I didn't go getting all pissy over it then. :) That would have just been silly.
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I grow impatient of mr hot-cold Horse guy, I am not writing him off, coz he is nearly perfect (except for the workaholicness and hotcoldness)....but...Im an options open kinda girl.
Enter....the diesel dude. He's a diesel mechanic, has been standoffishly flirting with me for a couple of weeks and he stole one of my business cards the other day, which has my mobile number (cell) on it....surprise, I have had a heaps of sms messages this weekend...Im seeing more of his personality via sms....or a different part of it anyways. I wish Horse dude would sort himself out. |
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Just the stor... ies (;) ) please. I don't get a lot of entertainment in my life. Oh... the kinkier, the better! :p |
Arrrghhhhh :D
I just got some beautiful flowers delivered to work with a card..."Here's to the unknown" I dont know which dude they are from.....HELP? |
Does it matter? Enjoy the intrigue.
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Send a thank you for the flowers email to each of them. The one that sent them will be satisfied, and the others will spurred to shit-or-get-off-the-pot, realizing they have competition. ;)
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DN, those are from me. I remember you like yellow.
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Is that why you gave me Red Roses, HLJ??? ;)
Diesel dude, who was the phantom flower giver, has just left after dinner....no sex (this is becoming a habit). I like Horse guy. |
Next time he comes over for dinner, serve him whipped cream and your chops.:blush:
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You like Horse because you don't know where you stand.
Damn, wish I had a phantom flower sender to have dinner with! The not having sex part I am handling myself |
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Phantom Flower sender and I have been bickering all morning via txt/sms message.
A misunderstanding about whether we are gonna see each other again....he's cracked the poos now and not talking to me. Spanka. Horse dude and I are spending next weekend together :) |
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SEX???? Somebody said sex? What is that? I haven't had any in 11 months. Sigh
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Let's put it this way - I'm looking forward to the next World Cup.
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Ok...seriously....Im not *that* much of a tart...but enter Footie dude.
Oh.my.god....this guy is HaWt...they do say opposites attract dont they? I've been off the dating wagon for waaaaay too long. Oh and Clod, I like Horsie dude better too, but he is hard work. |
Horsie dude has fallen off his horse or something? Actually, he's gone a little nutty, but thats guaranteed to keep me interested and waiting his call.
Phantom flower sender has been here all day....helping me paint the back lounge room. That says something doesnt it? He's very lovely and funny and helpful and sweet. Guys dont like being called sweet. Footie dude.....hmmm...no further comment as yet. |
Go for the one helping you with your house. Some guys like being called sweet, and it's usually those ones that are worth hanging on to. Anyway, what would I know. I fucked up plenty when I was younger, and nothing much has changed.
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I always liked a guy who works with his hands... especially those who aren't afraid to get dirty.... does Diesel man wear one of those monkey suits? I've been trying to get Flint into one of those jumpers for years now... dirty dirty...
A man who will spend his free time helping you with house projects seems well worth investing in in other capacities... he is thoughful, helpful, and still romantic (the flowers)... whats not to like?? He doesn't have some wierd deformity or smell does he? |
A man who voluntarily helps with home improvement? I thought that only happened on PBS...
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Wow.
Ducks, the man who is working to keep your attention is the keeper. The one who you need to work to get his attention is the loser. But I know what its like to fall for someone like the horse guy. I let someone like him go to marry my husband. I still think about him now and then, but I did make the better choice. In the meantime...are you having fun or what! Wow! |
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Well generally speaking...I think most men 'chase' a woman with the same angle in mind. At least initially...:D.
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I'm with Pico. Generally if a guy is doing all he can to impress you by helping you out with jobs around the house etc, then he's probably after your attention and affection. That'd probably be his 'angle'.
It's very cool to be cynical about people's motives these days, but seriously, there are a lot of lovely people out there who really just want to be loved. What's so wrong with that? |
Right on, Ali!
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Guys who help you out, one thing...clingy guys who fall all over themselves over everything you do, that's a whole other ball of wax. Desperately needing to be loved in order to maintain any semblance of self-worth, or because they just can't be alone, is not a good thing; that kind of fawning adoration will either burn out or make you sick of the sight of them, knowing their every ounce of happiness should not depend on whether or not you like them that day. I dated one of those. I really really tried. He took me to great places, did whatever I wanted, but would cry if I was feeling quiet and not responding to his every "are you OK? did I do something? please talk to me. please..." Just saying "I'm not very talkative right now, I'm just quiet sometimes" only led to more pleading, which made me quieter, which made him whine more, which pissed me off.
Just my 2 cents, without passing what would be ill-informed judgment on any of the guys. |
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well, duh who the fuck wouldn't love that |
Meh, Diesel dude is MIA :rolleyes:
I have a lunch date later this week with....errr.....river dude. He's a guy I met online last year, but the timing was really crappy and we stopped chatting (seriously crappy, we were chatting on the phone and he walked in to find his elderly mother passed on :eek:).... |
River Dude?
No, he's Crappy Timing Dude to me. Hey - it could be worse, he could be Dead Mother Dude. |
ok....River dude (named coz he lives near the Murray River), shall hereby be known as Bad Timing Dude.
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So...hows it goin?
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Ducky, you have to move to Nar Nar Goon town in Victoria state!
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Mrs. Right???!!!
That just ain't right! |
This made headlines last month....
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I was online booking my plane ticket. Then I reread it checking for the address.
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They've got enough of my type already. |
They could always use more SG. ;)
The whole issue has caused a bit of an uproar though as Ducks pointed out. Personally I thought it was the funniest blunder I've ever heard a politician make, but he'll probably survive it. After all, most of his voters are men. lol |
Yeah, it was amusing...and effective.
I read that the amount of women up there had increased dramatically. Now, back to our regular viewing..... Horse dude is STILL yanking my chain.....he has the same kinda hold over me that army dude has....and its mainly because I dont know when and if he is gonna pop back into my life. When he does, he has my....well....he thinks undivided attention. In the meantime....I may post some pics in the NSFW thread :) |
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