Holy crap...what's all this chief wench stuff? Who is "she" rattleing people's husbands?

Can I get a quote for the person who even said that?

Let it lieth all ye sensitive cellarites, so saeth the Lookout.

No, I am actually amused...lost my smilie..here it is...

:D

In fact, lol!!!

Hey lookout....where is your photo? Am I just not seeing it anywhere?

my photo? haven't posted one in a really really long time. i am in the RFN thread though. and some from my trip to the med. probably some others.

here's an old one though. me and lil lookout.

hmmm, can't get it to stick. i'll try later.

It's been improving since that one horrible night. I didn't feel it at all in the doctor's - of course - but I have it low grade right now. Nothing like what it was, easy to handle.

Sorry, I gotsta know, I gotsta know.

It sounds like Tink is trying to be PC and not identify "she". I applaud her for that. Frankly, she (Tink) made it known that she knows of some indiscretions that took place between this other Cellar female and her husband. I'd be upset too.

Sundae Girl,
Glad to hear things are ok with your leg. Let us know if working out helps. That would be good news for the rest of us too if we experience anything of the sort.

I'm Chief Wench.

Hmmm.. well, I'm not going to make fun of someone I don't know and who obviously feels betrayed as she states. If in fact that was a poke at her, which I hope it wasn't.

There seem to be some really great people here. That is a major issue that was dangled in her face and it seems that neither her husband nor this other person cared less about what effect it might have on her. Oh well, on to other threads.

Prove it. Show us the nekid pictures. :stickpoke :ggw:

Well I expect there are a number of us who tried to be supportive to V who are now worried we might be in the running for Chief Wench Wannabe.

I don't remember any significant PMs to V, but I did encourage him to start the process of healing and moving on in his life because I understood from his posts that there was no way the relationship could be healed. I've seen far too many men and women hurt for longer than they had to out of a false belief that they still had a chance.

There's only two ways to react when someone is hurting - give sympathy and advice and probably end up wrong, or stand back and let them suffer alone. I'd rather realise I was wrong afterwards than risk any chance that the person suffering genuine needs help.

*sigh* You must all be too young for Spartacus.....

Nah, I got that. My response was prompted by shina.

ok, listen up all y'all. If you are not a member of the BigV household can i suggest you just let this topic drop? We don't live with them and even if they posted a blow by blow analysis of the last few months/years, we still wouldn't fully understand the real situation.

BigV and Tink, I am so happy that things are on the mend with you. happier than i can tell you, really, but you two need to be realistic. the wounds are too fresh to be dealing with them in an open and public environment like the cellar. Words on the screen here can be easily misunderstood or misinterpreted. and the truth is that the down and dirty details of the events are no ones' business but your own, don't be ashamed, but be careful about what you post. trust me, i know from personal experience.

Looking back at the posts in this thread - Tink can you understand that after the last few months it is only natural that if V drops a "bad day" message, people would be concerned that the road to recovery you two are on might have developed a few bumps? Don't read our concern as "What did that evil woman do???" you are a cellarite now, so you need to read it as "whoa - are you TWO ok?" it's the cellar, we tend to have sharp claws and thick skin. But at the end of the day we stand by eachother, that means you too.

The Cellar has had couples in it before but we've never had a long time member go through a split, get back together, and introduce their other half, so this dynamic is new territory for us all.

now let's all just relax... *steps off soapbox*